He can't experience the pleasure I felt this afternoon when, idling in line at the recycling center, the person ahead noticed I'd arrived and pulled away. He was done, apparently, and since no one was behind him, was probably texting. I caught his attention as he passed, waved and smiled in thanks, he smiled and waved back.
Opening the back window on my CRV I reflected on the simple kindness people seem inclined to show each other lately. We smile more easily, we're more considerate, we're more thoughtful. I wondered if it's because we don't know which of us is going to get COVID-19 next. Which one of us will go into the hospital and never go home again.
Not knowing who's next, we want to be kind to everyone, just in case. It's tragic it's taken a pandemic to get our attention, but at least it did. Not that we're all going around thinking about dying and asking, "What's it all about, Alfie?"
I do think most of us are aware life has become more tenuous the past few months, though. A new microbe has ridden into town, gunning for all of us and the best we can do is try to stay out of its way. You can take my word for it, coronavirus is not one bit intimidated by liberal gun laws. Smith & Wesson can't protect anything from this outlaw.
But we don't need Smith & Wesson, anyway. If we can keep our heads long enough to smile and joke with strangers about being mistaken for robbers because we're wearing masks into Walmart, that's a good sign. If we can batten down the hatches on our pride, use some good sense and wear masks, wash our hands, and practice the pure human decency of social distancing, it's an even better sign we might help each other have half a chance.
It may not seem like a lot but at the moment it's what we've got, so let's use it with impunity. We're not talking about snake oil or something Trump has pulled out of his backside and tried to pass off as a miracle.
The true fact is, we don't need a miracle. What we need is a healthy dose of reality. Take a spoonful every hour until this is all over and then keep taking it. Don't let some reality TV character sell you a story about a handful of magic beans and a goose and a golden egg. That only works in fairy tales and life and COVID-19 ain't no fairy tales, no matter who says they are.
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